It is true and it is me

I spent one year in London, supposedly a not sex please city.

This is the place where I first used Grindr.

This is the place where I first went to a gay sauna.

This is the place where I first cruised in a gay bar.

This is the place where I first cruised naked in a gay bar.

This is the place where I first had sex in a gym.

I’m happily engaged, not British, and I took notes of everything that happened to me.


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20 Comments on “It is true and it is me
  1. Hi mate, I discovered your blog last night and have been reading it with interest and pleasure. Are you still in London? You sound like you’re Italian (I’m Italian, have lived in the UK for the last 10 years). I have always been a rather promiscuous gay man, but for the last year I have been in a committed relationship, so there’s been less promiscuity in my recent life. Not sure why I’m writing to you or why you should care. Cheerio!

    • Hi mate, I don’t know why you wrote to me, but that was so cool. It is the first comment they I get, so..thanks for this πŸ™‚
      Less promiscuity means still some promiscuity even if you are in a relationship, doesn’t it? If you wanna share any thought, I’d read it with pleasure.

  2. Hi,

    I stumbled onto your blog last night. Couldn’t stop reading. I’m very similar with similar experiences over the years, I just wish I’d written it all down. I loved the observation that gay life can be a loop rather than a linear progress; I’ve got a couple of white couch experiences. When I’m London next fingers crossed Grindr gifts me a chance with you. X

      • White couch – you mentioned going back to that same guy with the white couch and only realising later you’d been before.
        I live on the coast, Devon. You’re still in London then? I’m visiting soon…

  3. Hi , great read. Enjoy your posts. Makes you look deeper into people surrounding us lives. Used to read a similar blog about a guy in NY
    Do you still live in London?

  4. Your stories are awesome man. I’m in my late 30s and am with a boyfiriend for the first time after always being in straight relationships. Reading your stories about London which is my town too, is very exciting.

  5. You have an interesting blog. I enjoy reading about your escapades and your writing style as well. So descriptive! I can’t help but think how sexy you must be, especially with the discrete comments about yourself! Looking forward to more…

  6. Haha, I loved your blog post about Vault 139. What a crazy place! I couldn’t believe how quickly everything happened down there (I’ve just been once). Hopefully I’ll run into you one day. πŸ˜‰

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